Si Dian Jin (四点金) is a timeless tradition, and today, it has been designed to look timeless too
In this new article for the Traditions segment, we will look into the tradition of gifting Si Dian Jin (四点金).
Giving Si Dian Jin is a Chinese wedding tradition that holds a profound significance and has lasted through the test of times and modernisation. It symbolises the exchange of precious jewellery and heartfelt blessings and promises. Without further ado, let’s delve into the significance of Si Dian Jin, the consideration points when purchasing Si Dian Jin and where you can get them.
Significance of Si Dian Jin
Si Dian Jin is given by the groom’s family as a part of the betrothal gifts to the bride’s family during Guo Da Li (过大礼)– an important occasion for the groom to officially ask the bride’s parents for their daughter’s hand in marriage.
In general consensus, Chinese families in Singapore would expect a set of jewellery to be given. However, there are exceptions, which vary according to your dialect or personal preferences. For instance, Cantonese families may choose to have the Dragon and Phoenix bangles (龙凤镯) instead of a jewellery set. Therefore, it is essential for both sides of the family to communicate in advance and set the right expectations to prevent failing to meet expectations or arguments.
Regardless of the case, the set typically consists of four pieces of gold jewellery: a necklace, a ring, a bangle, and a pair of earrings. Each of these pieces of jewellery symbolises blessings for the new couple and we have included a more detailed description of the meaning of each jewellery in the image below.
Consideration points aka how do you choose your Si Dian Jin
Choosing your Si Dian Jin should be a thoughtful and meaningful process, as it carries significant cultural meaning and conveys the utmost blessing to couples. Hence, we recommend you select pieces that you’ll cherish not only for their beauty but also for the symbolism they represent in your marriage. Apart from its symbolism, you may also consider the points below when purchasing yourSi Dian Jin.
Budget:
These pieces of jewellery can range from simple and affordable to elaborate and expensive. Therefore, setting your budget for the Si Dian Jin and considering what you and your family can comfortably afford is advisable.
Choose a Style:
Si Dian Jin can come in various styles and designs so consider your personal taste and preferences. Do you prefer traditional or contemporary designs? Do you prefer something that is simple so it can be worn day-to-day?
These consideration points will help you determine your jewellery style and design.
Details of the jewellery:
Further elaborating on the point above, you may also consider if you would like to incorporate gemstones such as diamonds, crystals or even materials like Jade, which makes the jewellery extremely unique and elegant.
Places to get your Si Dian Jin
To ease your decision-making process, we have compiled a list of what’s available in Singapore, and into two categories— traditional and modern styles.
Traditional Si Dian Jin
1. Jewelry Boutiques
Singapore is home to many reputable jewellery boutiques and brands that specialise in wedding jewellery. Some well-known jewelry boutiques include Lee Hwa Jewellery, TianPo Jewellery, and Goldheart Jewelry. Visit their stores or explore their collections online to view Si Dian Jin options.
2. Local goldsmith stores or Local Craftsmen and Artisans:
Singapore is home to skilled craftsmen and artisans who can create bespoke Si Dian Jin sets with a good range of prices to choose from. With that said local goldsmiths can also allow for a high level of customization and personalization.
Modern Si Dian Jin
Under this category, we recommend these shops as they have a creative and gorgeous take on modernising Si Dian Jinwith pearls, jade, or diamonds. Making it perfect for everyday use after your big day.
1. Carrie K.
Source: Carrie K.
Taking pride in their quality craftsmanship and innovative design. Carrie K. allows you to express your personal style and story while guaranteeing quality. This will be great if you are purchasing your Si Dian Jin as a family heirloom or if you want the jewellery to have a family story or meaning behind it.
2. Gen. K Jewelry
Source: Gen K. Jewelry
Gen K. is more than glamorous, focusing on luxurious modern jade jewellery. The jewels of Gen.K Jewelry are timeless objects imbued with a story and soul. Whether you are celebrating love of any kind, honouring your dearest, or signifying a personal milestone, Gen.K Jewelry’s collections are rooted in the many special moments you live — a true embodiment of modern heirlooms that will journey with you on your own adventures.
3. Carat 55
Source: Carat 55
If you are looking for something that is wearable every day, Carat 55 might just be the shop for your consideration! Carat 55 presents the versatile Si Dian Jin collection, thoughtfully crafted for the contemporary bride who embraces the essence of heritage in her journey. With that said, they also focus on making Si Dian Jinjewellery that is modern, versatile, and comfortable.
Words from author
It is good to note that Singapore offers a splendid array of options for Si Dian Jin designs and styles. Though this is not a complete list of the stores available in Singapore, it should provide a good starting point for one to begin their research.
As you embark on this meaningful journey to choose your Si Dian Jin, remember that each piece tells a story—a story of love, commitment, and the fusion of two families into one. With careful consideration, a touch of artistry, and a dash of modernity, your Si Dian Jin will not only adorn you on your special day but will also be cherished as a family heirloom for generations to come.
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